“Lost December” by Richard Paul Evans

Released on November 1, 2011, Richard Paul Evans has given us another ‘gift’ of a wonderful story that teaches us like a modern day parable. Every year it seems Mr. Evans has brought forth such an inspired work and Lost December does not disappoint. Based on Jesus’ original prodigal son, Mr. Evans’ character, Luke, squanders all that he has been given before he finds the treasure of his father’s never-ending love.

The story was not too predictable and too “cheesy” because I found myself too often in the same mind path as Luke or Rachael. I could not stay in that superior position of pointing to them and telling them how foolish they were but instead I was brought to a teachable position to learn from them.

So turn on  your Kindle or checkout from your local library and enjoy and learn from Lost December. Great read!

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New Facebook Page

My husband, Henry, and I have created a new Facebook page as a way for people to connect with us regarding our availability to teach or speak to groups. We would love to hear from you!

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Duff’s Tavern & Grill, Vicksburg, MS

Like many people, I took a road trip during the Christmas holidays to have time with family. Ours was a 12-hour drive and often on those long trips, we have chosen “fast food” which usually sacrifices quality for speed. Thanks to the wonderful new aps on my phone, I searched through my navigation system for a restaurant along I-20 west near the historic town of Vicksburg, Mississippi. I randomly chose Duff’s Tavern and Grille because its location was in the historical area and there were other restaurants listed so I thought we could find something. What a wonderful discovery at Duff’s Tavern and Grille!

The atmosphere begins with beautiful Olde World décor that brought us into the best of New Orleans style. Rich woods, beautiful brass, lazily turning ceiling fans. Two steps into the door and we were greeted with genuine smiles and welcoming Southern charm. Our initial inquiry regarding vegetarian options received a quick response of several choices, both on and off the menu.

We had fried green tomatoes that had possibly the best cornmeal crust I had ever tasted. They must use “clean” oil and perfect temperature in their frying resulting in a crisp, non-greasy savory crust that covered a perfect slice of green tomato. My husband had a juicy, homemade veggieburger and I had an oyster po-boy, each with sides of sweet potato fries. Both perfectly cooked on a fresh, toasted bun/hoagie roll.

A gentleman at the table next to us had what appeared to be Duff’s Chef Salad with shrimp that covered an entire dinner plate. Another item on the menu, Shrimp and Crawfish Pie, will make it difficult for me to choose between these and many others, including that day’s special, Chili Cheese Burger.

The menu was extraordinary but so was the wait staff. They were friendly, efficient, unobtrusive, and certainly one of the best assests of this wonderful, relaxing stopover along the Mississippi River. 

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Christmas Movies on TV

This may be my favorite time of year for movies on TV. There are so many great stories that have been told and retold throughout the years.

A Christmas Carol – This is to me a great “parable” of God’s love and that redemption is possible even late in this life. The version with George C. Scott (1984) is my favorite as Mr. Scott has captured the Ebenezer Scrooge character with a good balance of cold, curmudgeon and redeemed man perfectly. But it is such a great story that the movie industry has given it many, many updates and variations on the theme:

  • (1999) With Patrick Stewart beams in from his Captain Picard persona at Star Trek: The Next Generation. He brings a more “traditionally British” flavor to the story.
  • (2000) Vanessa Williams pulls me farther out on the version limb with Diva’s Christmas Carol.
  • (1995) Susan Lucci as Ebbie brings the story to the “ridiculous” but definitely good for a late night hot cocoa and my Snuggie.
  • (2004) The Musical with Kelsey Grammar gets an “OK” from me and since I am so sentimental at this time of year, I do usually end up watching it – while surfing the web or playing electronic Solitaire.

Miracle on 34th Street – Black and white does not detrack from the perfection of Natalie Wood’s childhood portrayal of Maureen O’Hara’s “jaded” daughter in the 1947 version. John Payne is a little to affable for a lawyer but Edmund Gwenn sets the character bar high as Kris Kringle. Fortunately in 1994, Richard Attenborough was willing to put on the famous red coat in the more modern version with excellent results. This is a must on my viewing list also.

It’s a Wonderful Life – (1947) It’s hard to imagine that both of these movies came out in the same year. I make myself watch this movie every year because it does remind me of what my life can mean in the lives in others – for better or worse. The scenes of the city without “George” is a grim reminder of Edmund Burke’s warning: ‘For evil to flourish, all that is needed is for good men to do nothing.’

White Christmas – (1954) rounds out my Must List during this holiday. Musicals are non-existent these days, due in part, to some fallacy that only movies with copious amounts of blood, sex, and high-tech special effects are worth producing. Great music and dance with a believable storyline, like postwar struggles and triumph, have stood the test of time to make this possibly the most well-known Christmas (non-animated) movie ever made. Danny Kaye and Vera Ellen could have taken the gold if dancing had ever been in the Olympics!

The Nativity Story – (2006) It is unfortunate that most movies that have been made based on Biblical stories fall short for me in their accuracies and agendas. I prefer to read Luke or Matthew’s gospels and allow my own “internal video screen” to provide pictures in my mind about what I am reading.

 

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Match Making FOR God

I have surpassed my usual “Ridiculous Factor” recently as I noticed a new commercial on TV for www.ChristianMingle.com . Part of the sound bite that plays over happy, pretty people is something like “Sometimes we wait for God to make the next move when He is saying it is our turn”. Are you kidding me??? Move over, Abraham. I need to handle God’s job because He’s too slow!

My husband was 43 years old when we married. He had decided that maybe God wanted him to follow the footsteps of Paul (if you believe he was single!). In any case, he was living his life in his studies, with a few friends, and as a Godly, celibate man. Meanwhile, I was a single mother of three with a 60 hour/week job and very busy and content in my life. I was not looking for a husband at all! And yet, God got our attention individually and spoke to us about the one He had chosen. After we both got over our initial shock (even a bit of dismay that our plans were changed) and prayed, we met – and the rest is history. We’ve been married 12 years this month.

God KNOWS where you live. Do NOT doubt the power of God to bring someone to your door. He knows your heart. His plan has been proven over and over to be the best. I believe that, like Abraham, we allow our flesh to doubt God. We think He fell asleep on the job or doesn’t find our need for a mate to be as important as bringing a war to a close. God is big enough to handle it all, isn’t He?

And then there is the possibility that God says, “No” to marriage for me. That is a possibility and it is one that I may not want to consider that He would say. Am I willing to be obedient to God’s plan even if it isn’t mine and not one that I “like”? Good question to consider on any day as His disciple.

Please hear my testimony that God’s plan is the best even when it does not match mine. I have learned to pray for my heart to come along side God’s plan instead of asking Him to always bless my plan. Allow God to be your perfect matchmaker.

 

 

 

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Writing A Book

My husband and I are partners in a Christian publishing company. It has been an eye-opening experience to work with people to see their dream become a reality.

Henry has given guidelines for submissions on our website but I am talking about getting from “I think I want to write about _____” or “I have an idea for a book” to when you have a manuscript to submit to publishers. How do you know if what you’ve written should be submitted?

I believe in inspiration. Writing is a form of art. Whether it is with paints, ink, musical notes, cloth, beads, clay, glass, or metal the “ideas” for what these “parts” become to make the “whole” comes, for me, from God. It is a spiritual experience that can manifest itself in the physical. Many have described the bringing from idea to completion like giving birth. It is. It is hard work and takes time, months even years. Many people are inspired but few listen to the inspiration and put forth the effort and take the time to make it happen.

I believe in revelation. The journey of producing the book or the song or the painting or statue comes with physical and spiritual sweat. It can also come with revelation. As the work flows outward the knowledge and wisdom that can be a part of that work becomes more clear. As a writer, I find it emotionally calming to write. The emotions, whether anger, joy, grief, flows into the text and what I am to learn from the words are cleansed from the “muddy” emotions so that I come to know the truths. The knowledge may be just for me. Gifts frequently are just for one person, aren’t they? The revelation may be for me and then to share. Gifts of food are usually to be shared.

If you have been given a story to write, you are blessed already! Like Jeremiah, the story can become a “fire in your bones” (Jeremiah 20:9) that you must write.  But the question then is whether the story was a wonderful, extraordinary gift given just for you – or to bless others.

When my young son died, I began to write a book about grief. I thought I was writing it from my professional experience as a nurse and my personal experience in order to help others. I cannot put a quantity on the help that it was to me to walk through the wisdom and comfort that was given to me as I wrote those chapters. I knew that it was also to be shared with others when I received three phone calls over the next month from others who had also experienced a loss. They expressed their difficulty “putting one foot in front of the other”. God had given me a tool to help others take those first steps.  It is so important that I take the time to listen for His voice. God will speak. He will make sure that I hear His instructions if I have open ears to hear (Revelation 2-3).

If you hear inside of you to write, do it. Whether with pen and paper or a laptop, let the inspired words flow into a revelation that can be both cathartic and healing. We need more encouragement in our world.

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What Do You See? A Giant?

What do you see when you look into tomorrow? What do you see when you try to figure out what you are going to do about your bills, about your health, about your children or grandchildren?

If I listen to the media, I am in deep trouble. It all seems so impossible. I have done all I can do. I can’t do any more.

Yes, I can. I can pray…more. If that sounds ridiculous or silly, I am telling you that it is no more ridiculous than taking the word of another man or woman in the media. By who’s authority do they speak? Another person. They have no knowledge like our Creator does. If I have a problem too big for me to figure out, it makes sense that I go to One who knows more than I do. I go to an expert.

A young man named David went against the giant, Goliath, because the giant was laughing at David and who he believed in. Others saw a giant and gave up. They said nothing could be done against such a giant. David turned to the Creator who had already proven that He could strengthen David to slay a lion who came after his sheep. So David refused the advice to use armor and sword from the “experts” and took his slingshot that he had a talent to use well and went out to face his giant.

In the face of my giant problems, I need to do what I am given talents to do and do these things to the best of my ability. I need to cry out to God, saying that I know that the One who can calm the oceans, create all that I know, and loves me just as I am, can do all things. That is how to face my giants.

I am going to keep praying.

I am going to listen to music that reminds me of Who He is.

I am going to read His Word.

I am going to watch the movie, Facing the Giants and whatever else inspires and lifts my eyes.

What do I see when I look to tomorrow? I am not alone. I am looking at my LORD. My Savior.

 

 

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Greg’s Fishin Hole

My friend, Greg, had another great post this morning re: forgiveness.  So come on over to Greg’s Watering Hole today and take a sip of his brew. It’s straight from the Living Water!

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Economic Perspective the Media Won’t Report

I occasionally receive an email inviting me to take a “consumer survey”. I signed up for a couple of these because no one has ever called my home asking for my opinion and I happen to think that my opinion may, in fact, reflect “middle-road-majority” America.

Today I received a survey asking numerous questions about what I thought of the economy, present and future. I was asked about my purchasing in the last 3-12 months and my plans for the same time frame in the future. Some of the multiple choice answers were not easy to pick because they didn’t offer the response I wanted to give.

Our economic climate (what we feel and see) truly reflects these August Dog Days of summer. It is slow, oppressively humid, with little positive excitement. When asked about my spending history, I shake my head and give a tiny chuckle. I haven’t bought a home, new car, wide-screen TV, or taken any vacation in ten years. So my history and my present spending has changed little. I have been working on a very tight, constructed budget and do not plan to change no matter what “Hoo-Ra” cheer comes from Washington in the guise of some stimulus package.

As for the future, I believe that most of us who live in the real world will see, at best, little improvement, and more likely, a continued down slide in our spending. I believe the worse characteristic of the present and future economics is the effect it will have on the middle class of our country. It is the middle class that has been the strong backbone of this country. It is the middle class who is going to take the biggest hit. Those who have worked hard, paid their taxes, and do not take from any government subsidy until they come to retirement. If the economy continues in its present path, this middle class is going to spend less and feel forced to consider tapping into some subsidy, possibly when they lose their job. It is this group of people who have committed years in service to supporting that which we have proudly called “The American Dream”. Will the dream succumb to the carelessly, out-of-touch government officials who can’t put aside the ego of their own agendas and political careers? Will we continue to support a government who protects the benefits of its elected employees but leaves the rest of us to flounder in the sea of their making? We will have to pray and wait to see.

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The Church: Social Club or Office for The Physician

Book reviews of From Sorrows to Sapphires by Angela Williams and Terrible Things Happened to Me by Tom Scales

The Church was designed by Jesus Christ to be a hospital for the ill and dying. Some people come and need support groups and rehab; others need intensive care treatment. Jesus is in the “miracle business”. Do we as His ambassadors reflect this?

I was recently asked by the Voice Today organization to review two books. (Reviews follow on this blog) Instead of just providing pizza parties and summer camps of hiking and canoing and musical tours, we as a Church Body need to combine our gifts of discernment, healing, encouraging, prayer, and healing to identifying children and young people who are in the need of a touch from Jesus to change the paths they are on. Physical, emotional, and sexual abuse are not easy subjects to “deal with” in the Church. But there are people like Ms. Williams and Mr. Scales and their organization that if we are willing to be used by God, they are willing to add their God-given gifts.

Terrible Things Happened to Me by Tom Scales

This is a well written book about a horrific subject. I began my reading with the assumption that this was a book to be read by those who have experienced sexual abuse. By the end of the first chapter I knew it was a difficult but necessary book for every parent and grandparent, teacher, pastor, and caring adult. Through his own experience, Mr. Scales shows us some of the subtle, yet loud screams, that abused children will vocalize as they bed for someone to see their pain.

From Sorrows to Sapphires by Angela Williams

The hell on earth that Angela Williams endured for the first 17 years of her life have not been seen in any nightmare I have experienced. Her journey to Victory was one she could not only survive but be come the healed advocate she is today. This is a book of Hope for so many yet out there in what they have been deceived into believing is their private hell. A excellent read for any adult who wants to be a part of stopping the secrets that hold these affected children in a prison not of their making.

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